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User:kovee (5302653)
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Name:kovee
Location:Graham, Washington, United States
Birthdate:1977-09-02
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Bio:I'm a single mom, age 30. I have two kids: an 11-year-old daughter and a 7-year-old son. I spend a lot of my time surfing the net and reading. I also play the sims2. Also playing Ds games. I like to go fishing when the weather is nice. Lately, I have been exploring a part of myself that until recently I did not have a name for: polyamory.

I have always had many friends of both sexes, many of them being male. I was never really called a girlfriend; I was more a friend with perks. I grew tired of this. I knew I could have so much more, but I did not know how to go about it since what I wanted went against all I had been taught. I became frustrated and did not date--for almost 4 years I think it was. One day while talking to a friend on the net he gave me a web site address to check out. The site was OK Cupid. At this site there were many personality questions to answer and tests to take. At first I went there to see if I could find more people to be friends with. I soon found there were many people out there that I might want more with. At first I was really leery of this new way of meeting people.

I joined Ok Cupid I dated a guy from there for about two months. I soon realized he was one of those guys that I had to deal with when all throughout my school-age years. He would not even hold my had when he took me to a garden around Christmas time to look at lights. I was not a girlfriend. I was a friend with perks, nothing more. He could toss me aside at any time and not feel bad at all.

The turning point for me came on the first of the year. I had made a New Year's resolution of sorts that I would from now on look for people who would like or love all of me, not just what I could give them. On New Year's day the guy I had been with told me he was taking another girl to the Space Needle for the fireworks show. I was not too happy. Yet, the last time I had been with him I had felt he had drifted away from me. Like there was a wall that had not been there before and I was on the outside looking in.

So, I contacted another person on Ok Cupid [info]samvimes that had caught my eye way before A had. His smile always brought me back to his profile. I kept feeling like I wanted to get to know this person. In reading his profile he was very open about being poly. At the time I had not really thought about such a concept as polyamory to be an acceptable thing. I used to think anything like that was cheating, and therefore wrong. So, I set out to read all I could about polyamory before contacting him. When I did, he also sent me many web site addresses to look at. He wanted me to go in to any relationship with him with my eyes wide open.

On New Year's day we set up to meet each other for the first time. I have to say he is the first guy I have dated--other than one time in high school--that treated me like I was his girlfriend and not just a friend in front of other people. I was introduced to the cloven fruit on our first date. I have to admit I was a little miffed when I did not get the first kiss of the date. I was being a chicken. So really, I have to say thank you to A for bringing that fruit over. I do not know if I would have ever got up the courage to get the first kiss otherwise. I am glad that I did. At that party I felt I had finally found the people I had been searching for all my life. That was the beginning of my Poly life. It is now been 2 years since I have started dating G who is poly. I have been calling myself poly for 2 years now. I have so many friends and potential lovers now I sometimes do not know who or what I will be doing day to day to weekend to weekend. I love it. So, being new to poly, please excuse any thing that might seem unpolyish to you. I am still learning what is it to be and live as a poly person. Below are some other things about me.

My spelling is bad. I like Root beer, Jelly Bellies and pop rock candy. I like to eat spinach and dill pickles. I still put the black olives on my fingers before I eat them. I like to take pictures of clouds and nature more then people. I drink one cup of really strong coffee in the morning and if I do not get it I am cranky for a little bit. I like to sleep in but if I have to get up, I will. I have 3 cats, 2 dogs (well Oscar is my uncle's, Charlie is mine. Oscar would eat me if I get too close). I have one goldfish, and two fresh underwater frogs. I live with 8 other people, all family members. They are really protective of me. They do not know I am poly.

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What Season Are You?
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You scored as Spring

You are SPRING. Ever optimistic, you readily greet each day with an open mind, and with gladness in your heart knowing that even should life share its dimness with you, the sun -will- come out.

Spring

95%

Fall

90%

Summer

85%

Winter

85%



Your Power Color Is Blue


Relationships and feelngs are the most important things to you.
You are empathetic and accepting - and good at avoiding conflict.
If someone close to you is in pain, it makes you hurt as well.
You try to heal the ones you love with your kind and open heart.




What's Your Power Color? Take This Quiz :-)




Find the Love of Your Life
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You Belong in 1975



1975





If you scored...

1950 - 1959: You're fun loving, romantic, and more than a little innocent. See you at the drive in!

1960 - 1969: You are a free spirit with a huge heart. Love, peace, and happiness rule - oh, and drugs too.

1970 - 1979: Bold and brash, you take life by the horns. Whether you're partying or protesting, you give it your all!

1980 - 1989: Wild, over the top, and just a little bit cheesy. You're colorful at night - and successful during the day.

1990 - 1999: With you anything goes! You're grunge one day, ghetto fabulous the next. It's all good!




Fuck Me



Your Candy Heart is "Fuck Me"


When people say V-day is romantic, they're not wrong.

It's just that you're idea of romance is doing it all night long.

So screw the dinner, the cards, and the roses.

You'll show love by doing it in many poses.



What Naughty Candy Heart Are You?

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i'm in gryffindor!

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Which Invader Zim Charecter are You?
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You scored as Professor Membrane

You are PROFESSOR MEMBRANE! Gaz and Dib's scientest-tv star father, you love saving the world and science.

Professor Membrane

83%

Gaz

83%

Dib

83%

Gir

67%

The Allmighty Tallest

50%

Zim

33%

Ms. Bitters

17%





You Are 64% Femme and 36% Butch!

80 - 100% Femme - You're the girly girl of the century. Or Clay Aiken.

60 - 79% Femme - Girl? Almost certainly. If not, you've got some major man boobs going on.

40 - 59% Femme - Girl or guy? Even your best friends can't figure this one out.

20 - 39% Femme - You are likely male, or the toughest, scariest lesbian around.

0 - 19% Femme - You are 100% male. You make cowboys look like pussies.


How Butch or Femme Are You?

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You scored as Romantic Comedy. What the fuck? You scored Romantic Comedy. You love sappy shit. You're oblivious to what's happening as long as you have some guy for eye candy and a happy ending you wish you could happen in your own life. Time to rent some new movies.

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Sci-Fi/Fantasy

100%

Mindless Action Flick

100%

Mindfuck

100%

Romantic Comedy

100%

Sadistic Humour

85%

Artistic

70%

Drama/Suspense

70%

Movie Recommendation.
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Kovee's fantasy prophecy


At the creation of the blue portal songs of the deep whales have said;

"When the bleak statue glows and the vile coliseum trembles.
After the pitiless dictator increases their watch and before the lords free their bonds.
Kovee will encounter the Stone Giant. They will wed the Baroness.
The Arcane will rule again."
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My Monster Name
is
Blue Dragon


Blue Dragons like to hang around in deserts where they frolic among the sand dunes. Blue dragons can shoot a fork of lightening from their mouth and are careful not to mix this ability up with their magical talent for creating water. These dragons like to collect gold and Buffy the Vampire Slayer comics.

The Levenshtein distance between Kovee Dragon Seeker and Blue Dragon is 10.
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You scored as Geek.

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Geek

75%

Drama nerd

63%

Loner

56%

Punk/Rebel

38%

Ghetto gangsta

38%

Prep/Jock/Cheerleader

19%

Stoner

13%

Goth

6%

What's Your High School Stereotype?
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what decade does your personality live in?


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Horse
What Is Your Animal Personality?

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You scored as Interpersonal. You enjoy being around people, like talking to people, have many friends, and engage in social activities. You learn best by relating, sharing, and participating in cooperative group environments. People like you include salespeople, consultants, community organizers, counselors, teachers or any other helping profession.

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Interpersonal

79%

Musical/Rhythmic

79%

Intrapersonal

71%

Bodily/Kinesthetic

68%

Verbal/Linguistic

57%

Visual/Spatial

50%

Logical/Mathematical

39%

The Rogers Indicator of Multiple Intelligences
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You scored as Water. Water is the element that predominates in your life. Water rules the signs Cancer, Scorpio, and Pisces.

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Water

70%

Spirit

55%

Air

55%

Fire

50%

Earth

45%

Which of the Five Elements are you?
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Inara
You are Inara, the registerred Companion. you are
sexy, sensual and skilled, yet have trouble
admitting to your emotions. You swing both
ways.


Which Firefly character are you?
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You scored as Albus Dumbledore. Strong and powerful you admirably defend your world and your charges against those who would seek to harm them. However sometimes you can fail to do what you must because you care too much to cause suffering.

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Sirius Black

85%

Remus Lupin

85%

Albus Dumbledore

85%

Hermione Granger

75%

Harry Potter

75%

Ginny Weasley

75%

Draco Malfoy

55%

Ron Weasley

55%

Severus Snape

50%

Lord Voldemort

30%

Your Harry Potter Alter Ego Is...?
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Air
Your element is Air: Carefree, lovable, fun and
childish. Arent you cute! Your just full of
childhood spunk and happiness! Hey who said
being young was a bad thing? You have a keen
understanding of whats good in life and choose
to remain happy rather than get too upset over
things. Life is fun, who wants to be troubled
by grown-up problems? Being as capable of love
as you are you will make a wonderful parent if
and when you choose to grow up. Love is a
mystery because you only want friends not love
interests, games are better than relationships
with the opposite sex. You have what everyone
is searching for, that so called 'fountain of
youth' deep inside. You can come across as
naive and childish at times. But who cares what
they think, lets go play tag!


.:-|What is your true element?|-:. -With Anime Pictures and detailed answers-
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Air Sprite
Fun loving, childish, innocent and pure
You are a sprite of the Air: Fun loving and
childish your naive nature only enhances how
truly cute you are! You may come off as too
childish but only because your not burdened
with all the rules and regulations of
adulthood. You are carefree most of the time
spending your days playing tag or naming all
the clouds you see in the sky. You are
generally kind to everyone because you have
lots of love and happiness to share! Making
friends comes easy because they strive for the
innocence you possess but be careful, being as
nice and kind hearted as you are people will
try to manipulate your nature if they have not
already. Don't ever let anyone mold you to
their standards although I doubt anyone could.


.::=What type of Mythical Sprite are you?=::. -With Anime Pictures and detailed answers-
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uni
You are Form 3, Unicorn: The Innocent.

"And The Unicorn knew she wasn't meant to
go into the Dark Wood. Disregarding the advice
given to her by the spirits, Unicorn went
inside and bled silver blood.. For her
misdeed, the world knew evil."


Some examples of the Unicorn Form are Eve
(Christian) and Pandora (Greek).
The Unicorn is associated with the concept of
innocence, the number 3, and the element of
water.
Her sign is the twilight sun.

As a member of Form 3, you are a curious
individual. You are drawn to new things and
become fascinated with ideas you've never come
in contact with before. Some people may say
you are too nosey, but it's only because you
like getting to the bottom of things and
solving them. Unicorns are the best friends to
have because they are inquisitive.


Which Mythological Form Are You?
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Your Passion is Red!


You've got that spark - a good dose of intensity, power, and determination.
You do whatever you want in life ... to hell with what anyone thinks!
With so many interests and loves, you're always running around doing something new.
You have fire in your eyes, and it shows. Bet you're even wearing something red!




What Color is Your Passion? Take This Quiz :-)




Find the Love of Your Life
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You scored as Christianity. Your views are most similar to those of Christianity. Do more research on Christianity and possibly consider being baptized and accepting Jesus, if you aren't already Christian.

Christianity is the second of the Abrahamic faiths; it follows Judaism and is followed by Islam. It differs in its belief of Jesus, as not a prophet nor historical figure, but as God in human form. The Holy Trinity is the concept that God takes three forms: the Father, the Son (Jesus), and the Holy Ghost (sometimes called Holy Spirit). Jesus taught the idea of instead of seeking revenge, one should love his or her neighbors and enemies. Christians believe that Jesus died on the cross to save humankind and forgive people's sins.

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Christianity

100%

Buddhism

75%

Paganism

75%

Satanism

67%

Islam

58%

Hinduism

58%

Judaism

50%

agnosticism

38%

atheism

17%

Which religion is the right one for you? (new version)
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Light
Your element is Light: Innocent, beautiful,
kind-hearted and pure. You are so sweet your
almost angelic, you find joy in others
happiness and cannot stand to see anyone in
pain. You want to make everyone around you feel
good about themselves and if someone is upset
you can tend to become rather upset as well
which means you are sympathetic and raise
others above yourself. Being as kind and
good-natured as you are people have most likely
hurt you in the past but you pick yourself up
every time. You may look fragile but you are
stronger than most tend to see. Life is
beautiful no matter how you look at it and you
understand that people make mistakes, not
everyone is perfect. You try to see the good in
the bad which is a talent few posses, dont ever
let anyone change you. You truly have a
beautiful soul inside and a heart of gold.


.:-|What is your true element?|-:. -With Anime Pictures and detailed answers-
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Memories::8 entries
Pictures:fewer than 10 public
Interests:96: "friendly", adventure quest, aliens, ally mc beal show, alternative lifestyles, alternative relationships, angel, angels, board games, boating, books, bowling, british science fiction, buffy the vampire hunter, camping, card games, cats, cds, cell phone bills, chaos, chosen family, coffee, communication, computers, country western music, creative writing, creativity, cuddling, dancing, dating, dogs, douglas adams, dragons, ds games, dvd's, empathy, ethical slut, exhibitionism, faerie folks, faeries, family, female ejaculation, finding like minds, fishing, flirting, foreplay, gaia conscort, gardening, gold fish, harry potter books, hermit crabs, hiking, jelly bellies, kids, love, magic, movies, neopets, orgasms, over due books, parakeets, pay day, pets, picture taking, pictures, pizza, poly, poly friendly, polyamory, puzzle pirates, rain, reiki, romance books, root beer, sexy pirates, sfi shows, shells, sims pet stories, simutrans, singing, slayer, star trek, star wars, swimming, swings, tantric, tetris, thunder storms, up late, vacations, vampires, virtual pets, virtual villagers, web searches, werewolfs, women
Schools:Sumner High School - Sumner, WA (1994 - 1997)
Friends:
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